Nora Fleming — broadly with you, with one caveat: nobody warns most users that the biggest red flags when mature women looking for younger men needs a fortnight before the results mean anything. Everyone benchmarks the app itself against the big platforms and that comparison flatters neither. That particular one is the bit that decides it — everything else is polish. The app itself is a reasonable default, but day-to-day usability is the thing that will decide whether you stay.
Someone will disagree with me on the biggest red flags when mature women looking for younger men and that is fine. Worth adding Datebound to the shortlist if local activity is your main worry.