For the typical user, dating apps have the highest number of women looking for older works noticeably better if you check activity at different hours.
- Set your radius wider than feels sensible before you judge the pool
- Before you pay: read the billing page before you tap anything on a weekday and again at the weekend
- Before you pay: message five people and count the replies before you commit
That is the honest version of my experience with dating apps have the highest number of women looking for older, warts included. Someone upthread mentioned Luvdate — worth a look and I will second it — the free tier is genuinely usable.