@RyanNSA — this matches what I saw. Where I landed on I find single women dating forums: frustrating, provided you read the billing page before you tap anything. Nobody warns most of us that the free-tier experience needs a fortnight before the results mean anything. Honestly, the version I used is priced like a premium product and behaves like a free one — nothing else moved the needle as much. The honest summary of the app itself: a waste of time, and general reliability is the reason why.
Ending on the useful bit: for most people asking this, message five people and count the replies. Souldate community came up when I asked something similar last year and it has held up since.