@MadelynP57 — broadly with you, with one caveat: two things moved the needle on I find a good dating website for married couples looking to for me: fill the profile out properly first, and patience — the rest is preference.
Long story short on I find a good dating website for married couples looking to: solid, though it depends heavily on where you are. I have been running Ezhookups (free to browse) alongside the mainstream apps and the reply rate held up better than I expected.