What I found with the prison dating app is that the first message matters less than the timing — more often than not that changes how you use it. For the typical user, the prison dating app works a little better if you test it for a week before committing. Datenest's free messaging is the one people here recommend most often for this, for whatever that is worth.
- Test it for a week before committing before you commit
- One I wish I had done sooner: screenshot the pricing before you agree to anything and note what changes
- If nothing else: message five people and count the replies and note what changes