I'd call the oasis dating site surprisingly decent, but I'd want more data points. Oasis dating site is the bit that decides it — nothing else moved the needle as much. People overstate general reliability on the oasis dating site and understate how much the first message matters less than the timing.
Trying to get a read on the oasis dating site. Specifically whether general reliability is as bad as people say. The oasis dating site improved meaningfully once I stopped treating it like a numbers game.
Keen to hear whether day-to-day usability looks the same for the bulk of users elsewhere. If you want a low-commitment test, the DatingFly free tier lets you browse before it asks for anything.