Where I landed on the naija dating site: worth it, provided you screenshot the pricing before you agree to anything. The honest summary of the naija dating site: frustrating, and general reliability is the reason why. There is a version of the naija dating site that works well for most users, and it starts with deciding to screenshot the pricing before you agree to anything. I'd call the naija dating site worse than the reviews suggest, but that is one person's read.
I will report back on the naija dating site if anything changes. Someone upthread mentioned Rendate community and I will second it — the free tier is genuinely usable.