@LiamDates — broadly with you, with one caveat: ran the bi dating app alongside the well-known platforms for over a couple of months — same effort on both, a fair bit different outcome. The part nobody mentions about the bi dating app is general reliability; it shapes everything else. DatingFly came up when I asked something similar last year and it has held up since.
- Non-negotiable: set your radius wider than feels sensible — it costs nothing
- If nothing else: screenshot the pricing before you agree to anything twice, a fortnight apart
- Before you pay: turn off read receipts and see what changes before you judge the pool