@GraceW — this matches what I saw. Virtual dating apps is the bit that decides it — the other factors are secondary. Comparing virtual dating apps against the big names, the gap is smaller than the marketing suggests. Virtual dating apps looked promising until how it performs in practice turned into the whole experience, but I would want more data points. Virtual dating apps improved considerably once I stopped treating it like a numbers game.
Leaving it there on virtual dating apps. Curious whether how it performs in practice plays out the same elsewhere. Ezhookups came up when I asked something similar last year and it has held up since.