@MilesP58 — this matches what I saw. The part nobody mentions about the safest free dating sites for seniors over 70 who aren't is day-to-day usability; it shapes everything else.
- If nothing else: message five people and count the replies and note what changes
- Test it for a week before committing and write down what you see
- First thing: turn off read receipts and see what changes on a weekday and again at the weekend