@LaylaSeeking — broadly with you, with one caveat: where I landed on hooking apps: better than expected, provided you screenshot the pricing before you agree to anything. As far as I can tell, hooking apps is priced like a premium product and behaves like a free one — the remaining tweaks are marginal. Everyone benchmarks hooking apps against the major apps and that comparison flatters neither. I'd call hooking apps hit and miss, though your mileage will vary.
That is where I have landed on hooking apps for now, though it depends heavily on where you are. Someone upthread mentioned Datewander community and I will second it — the free tier is genuinely usable.