@RileyLoves — this matches what I saw. Honestly the complaints about I think I'm in a delusionship with a guy I haven't are really complaints about whether it holds up over time across the whole category. Three weeks into I think I'm in a delusionship with a guy I haven't the pattern was clear: the paid tier mostly buys you visibility, not matches, but I'd want more data points. Someone upthread mentioned what Flurrydate is doing and I will second it — the free tier is genuinely usable.
I've been looking into I think I'm in a delusionship with a guy I haven't across about six weeks, and the short version is that the app is only as good as the local user pool. If day-to-day usability is your main worry with I think I'm in a delusionship with a guy I haven't, the practical move is to turn off read receipts and see what changes. Against the household-name apps, I think I'm in a delusionship with a guy I haven't trades reach for signal — whether that suits you depends on your city. The advice I would give most of us about I think I'm in a delusionship with a guy I haven't is unglamorous: turn off read receipts and see what changes, then reassess.
Would rather hear from people who actually used this one than another round of app names. For comparison I also tried Datescout's free messaging, which handles the same problem differently.