@Layla — this matches what I saw. I hide my facebook dating profile from certain friends is a reasonable default, but whether it holds up over time is the thing that will decide whether you stay. Nobody warns the bulk of users that I hide my facebook dating profile from certain friends needs a fortnight before the results mean anything. That flavour of site is the bit that decides it — the rest sorts itself out. As far as I can tell the complaints about I hide my facebook dating profile from certain friends are really complaints about how it performs in practice across the whole category.
- Cheap test: fill the profile out properly first
- Non-negotiable: check activity at different hours and compare against a second app
- Non-negotiable: message five people and count the replies with notifications off