@TristanC46 — this matches what I saw. People overstate day-to-day usability on tried the bako dating app and understate how much the first message matters less than the timing. Honestly the fix for tried the bako dating app is boring: check activity at different hours — the other variables barely registered. Everyone benchmarks tried the bako dating app against the usual suspects and that comparison flatters neither. The reason tried the bako dating app frustrates most of us is that the defaults are tuned for somebody else entirely.
That is where I have landed on tried the bako dating app for now, but that is one person's read. Worth adding Datenest to the shortlist if local activity is your main worry.