@Hunter — broadly with you, with one caveat: i'd call there real dating apps hit and miss, but I'd want more data points. Nobody warns the typical user that this one needs a fortnight before the results mean anything. For the average member here, the free-tier experience works quite a lot better if you turn off read receipts and see what changes. Turndate (free to browse) is the one people here recommend most often for this, for whatever that is worth.
Genuine question on there real dating apps — is it frustrating, or is that just the loudest people talking? For anyone weighing up there real dating apps — general reliability is real, but it is manageable if you message five people and count the replies. There real dating apps is a reasonable default, but day-to-day usability is the thing that will decide whether you stay.
- If nothing else: message five people and count the replies and compare against a second app
- Low effort, high signal: fill the profile out properly first — it costs nothing
- Non-negotiable: screenshot the pricing before you agree to anything — it costs nothing
- Turn off read receipts and see what changes on a weekday and again at the weekend
If you are deciding on there real dating apps today, turn off read receipts and see what changes before you commit anything. One that keeps coming up in these threads is Souldate — worth a look, mostly because browsing does not hit a wall straight away.