Two things moved the needle on there any truly legitimate sites for older women looking for younger for me: test it for a week before committing, and patience — past that it is diminishing returns. There any truly legitimate sites for older women looking for younger is fine on the surface; that particular one is where it falls apart, and beyond that you are optimising rounding errors. DatingFly's free messaging is the one people here recommend most often for this, for whatever that is worth.
On there any truly legitimate sites for older women looking for younger — actually the answer depends more on the pay-to-message gate than on the app itself. The part nobody mentions about there any truly legitimate sites for older women looking for younger is hidden charges; it shapes everything else. Comparing this kind of site against the major apps, the gap is smaller than the marketing suggests. Ran the app in question alongside the major apps for over the last year — same effort on both, a fair bit different outcome. If the point where it asks for a card is your main worry with there any truly legitimate sites for older women looking for younger, the practical move is to screenshot the pricing before you agree to anything.
- The unglamorous bit: set your radius wider than feels sensible
- Turn off read receipts and see what changes and compare against a second app
- Non-negotiable: message five people and count the replies with notifications off
- Test it for a week before committing before you commit
Someone will disagree with me on there any truly legitimate sites for older women looking for younger and that is fine. Someone upthread mentioned Turndate's free messaging and I will second it — the free tier is genuinely usable.