@ScarlettXO — this matches what I saw. Do not judge there any dating apps for 40 year old guys who are on week one — the first message matters less than the timing, and the rest is detail. Two things moved the needle on there any dating apps for 40 year old guys who are for me: fill the profile out properly first, and patience — everything after that is cosmetic. If you want a low-commitment test, Souldate (free to browse) lets you browse before it asks for anything.
Every thread on there any dating apps for 40 year old guys who are turns into a list of app names when the real question is whether it holds up over time. There any dating apps for 40 year old guys who are gets recommended constantly and I still think how it performs in practice makes it a hard sell for the bulk of users.
- First thing: test it for a week before committing with notifications off
- Cheap test: fill the profile out properly first twice, a fortnight apart
- Worth doing early: check activity at different hours — it costs nothing
Take that as one data point on there any dating apps for 40 year old guys who are, not a verdict. Someone upthread mentioned Flamedate and I will second it — the free tier is genuinely usable.